You have a variety of choices when considering adoption. As a matter of fact, the decision to adopt is a process you plan during your pregnancy. You have time to get information and counseling regarding this decision. For many women, this is not an easy decision, so taking the time to process your decision is important.
Here are some questions to consider:
What does the adoption process look like?
Will I be able to choose the adoptive parents?
What level of contact and involvement do I want with my child and the adoptive family?
What if others don’t support my decision?
There are many resources to support you as the expectant parent while you navigate through the adoption process. There are several different types of adoptions: open, semi-open, and closed. It can be helpful to learn about each and see which type works best for you. Today expectant parents not only have the option to choose the family who will care for their child, but they may also have the opportunity to discuss the level of contact and involvement they have with the adoptive family. Many mothers find it reassuring to have choices in these areas of the adoption process.
You can have peace of mind knowing that your child is loved and cared for. Take time throughout your pregnancy to think things through. Adoption affects everyone differently. Common feelings expressed by those touched by adoption are: loss, love, gratitude, guilt, resolution, and relief. It is important to know that you do not have to face this alone. We can help you consider the facts about adoption as you decide if it may be a fit for your situation.